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    Re: So, I busted my 11 yr old looking at porn

    Quote Originally Posted by MadCarlisle View Post
    unsupervised internet access is asking for trouble more ways than one. your child may be subject to bullying, sex predators, unscrupeless people etc.

    if you don't know what they are doing you are asking for trouble. you don't have to limit their access but you definetely need to know what they are doing on the net from surfing, shopping, forums, my space etc


    wait until your kid learns how to clear the browser history. you won't know where they have been

    Put a key logger program to keep track of them. better to monitor in the background with a discussion later about what they are doing. if you don't you may have problems later. don't think that it can't happen to you because many think that and find out bad things later.

    here is the program i use. takes screen shots and keeps track of key strokes, websites etc. you can even block certain websites with parent controls, or specfic links.

    http://pcpandora.com/

    There are so many other ways to see what a child is doing online then just the History button, the internet is a wonderful thing for children to utilize, sure block the porn sites and what not like that. But keystroke logs and other nifty little things is an invasion of privacy. I think the main point being is that all these programs and child watching and pool monitors are easing the parents responsibility of what it is to be a parent.......WATCH YOUR CHILDREN don't let a program or a monitor or any other cool groovy tech device that makes it easier for you, being a parent isn't supposed to be easy and it is a 24/7 365 kinda job!!!
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    Re: So, I busted my 11 yr old looking at porn

    Quote Originally Posted by TwistedXJ View Post
    There are so many other ways to see what a child is doing online then just the History button, the internet is a wonderful thing for children to utilize, sure block the porn sites and what not like that. But keystroke logs and other nifty little things is an invasion of privacy. I think the main point being is that all these programs and child watching and pool monitors are easing the parents responsibility of what it is to be a parent.......WATCH YOUR CHILDREN don't let a program or a monitor or any other cool groovy tech device that makes it easier for you, being a parent isn't supposed to be easy and it is a 24/7 365 kinda job!!!
    I guess that means you get 1 day off this year.

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    Re: So, I busted my 11 yr old looking at porn

    Quote Originally Posted by TwistedXJ View Post
    There are so many other ways to see what a child is doing online then just the History button, the internet is a wonderful thing for children to utilize, sure block the porn sites and what not like that. But keystroke logs and other nifty little things is an invasion of privacy. I think the main point being is that all these programs and child watching and pool monitors are easing the parents responsibility of what it is to be a parent.......WATCH YOUR CHILDREN don't let a program or a monitor or any other cool groovy tech device that makes it easier for you, being a parent isn't supposed to be easy and it is a 24/7 365 kinda job!!!
    Think about all the stuff you got away with when you were a kid. Now think of what you could have done if you had the internet at your fingertips! You can't watch them 24/7. Back in the day there wasn't any cyber space to be cautious of, with today's technology there's a whole new world of freaks and pervs and evils lurking.

    Kids these days are technology natives, we are pilgrims learning the scape of the land. They know they're way around any computerized machine they see. I say fight fire with fire, use the technology to fight technology.

    Also, if they have a PSP or video Ipod, check them for porn often. I hear alot of my students discussing that kind of stuff, I even caught one of them watching it durring class!
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    Re: So, I busted my 11 yr old looking at porn

    Just give him the link to 2 girls 1 cup..

    He wont try to access anything like that again

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    Re: So, I busted my 11 yr old looking at porn

    God - I just read this....does this mean I only have 3 years before the dreaded "sex talk"?!! what is the world coming to??!!
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    Re: So, I busted my 11 yr old looking at porn

    Quote Originally Posted by lancetkenyon View Post
    I guess that means you get 1 day off this year.


    Yep better take advantage only hapens one every 4 yrs
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    Re: So, I busted my 11 yr old looking at porn

    Quote Originally Posted by Miles2go1979 View Post
    Think about all the stuff you got away with when you were a kid. Now think of what you could have done if you had the internet at your fingertips! You can't watch them 24/7. Back in the day there wasn't any cyber space to be cautious of, with today's technology there's a whole new world of freaks and pervs and evils lurking.

    Kids these days are technology natives, we are pilgrims learning the scape of the land. They know they're way around any computerized machine they see. I say fight fire with fire, use the technology to fight technology.

    Also, if they have a PSP or video Ipod, check them for porn often. I hear alot of my students discussing that kind of stuff, I even caught one of them watching it durring class!
    Here is an excelent idea, for starters no pc in their room have one in a room were guess you know what is coming up YOU WATCH THEM I mean after all it is YOUR job!!!!! I was a kid when all of this happened and I am 26 now with two of my own, I never surfed porn because my parents kept the FAMILY pc in the family room and you had a time limit they didn't actively watch but their presence was known! All comes down to watching and knowing what they are doing, the only tech program I agree with is Websense which is like net nanny, just in case they get an undesirable site.
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    Re: So, I busted my 11 yr old looking at porn

    My son is 7, getting ready to be 8 in September, and im not worried about porn, or 2 girls one cup, im worried about bullies, teachers and teachers who are bullies.

    Since he was a young kid, we pretty much engraved into his head that his priorities were family, school, his activities, and his friends. The kid cant stand seeing people kiss on screen, and doesn't particularly like those steamy scenes. We give him the freedom to see movies like jack***** and cops and stuff like that, and he makes comments like those guys are idiots, and thats dumb.

    heres an easy way to keep your kids from accessing the internet with out your permission. even at night....
    Lock you PC, create a password, that only you and your wife or significant other knows. It works and it keeps them form going on unless you allow them to. Simple.

    Once they are on. make sure you monitor the sites, I recently caught my son and the neighbor girl across the street on youtube watching stick figure movies of people smoking crack, and shooting each other. They thought it was cute. My punishment: Eo, sasha, If I catch you again, you will be allowed to use my computer again and you wont be allowed to see each other for a month. Now im going to tell your mom sasha.

    It worked. She tried it one more time and sure enough i heard eo, DONT YOUR GONNA GET ME GROUNDED AND I LIKE LINE RIDER!


    Plus i tell him he cant have a GF until he is out of college. That girls will only distract him from school and his sports (he snowboards, races bmx and MX, and plays soccer.)
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    Re: So, I busted my 11 yr old looking at porn

    ok, just wanted to update this thread so everybody knows how the story is turning out. he is going to be a senior this year. he is a smart, upstanding young man. he was in young marines from 7th grade to his sophomore year and has been in jrotc since he started high school. he is hell bent on joining the marines and becoming an aviator. he gets good grades, and I have no worries about drug use with him and the guys he hangs out with. I think he might even still be a virgin(poor kid). some of the crew are already in the military. our relationship has always been good. he does whatever he is asked to (especially car/jeep stuff that I don't want to do). I think he appreciates all the things he's learned by being my slave.

    the reason I even brought this thread back up was to say how proud I am of his most recent accomplishment. he was at walmart with his buddies and they bought a johnny cash greatest hits cd(and it is pretty f'ing awesome). high school seniors that listen to 5 finger death punch, a7x, volbeat, all that remains, etc bought a johnny cash cd. how cool is that? we listened to it together and it was great. not like incredible because we always listen to music together because I like 5 finger death punch, a7x, volbeat, all that remains, ect but it was pretty cool.

    the moral of the story is, if your kid is looking at boobs when he is 11, it doesn't mean he will grow up to be a worthless piece of ****. it just means he will know what tits and *** look like. but now my daughter will be 14 in a couple months and she has some less than perfect example friends. stay tuned for part 2.
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    Re: So, I busted my 11 yr old looking at porn

    Maybe I missed this, but didn't we just justify a reason for all of us men to get subscriptions for Playboy or whatever flavor of magazine you want your son to "accidently" find. If you block access at your house they just go some place else, you might as well get some benefit out of this as well.
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    Re: So, I busted my 11 yr old looking at porn

    Quote Originally Posted by chopped7 View Post
    ....but now my daughter will be 14 in a couple months and she has some less than perfect example friends. stay tuned for part 2.
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    I didn't bother reading the whole thread, but can imagine what was said lol, that being put forth, as a father of 2 girls, well soon to be two, just 1 for now, I'm a little freaked out about this. I guess I was raised in a sheltered life style, didn't see any of this until about 16. I guess my concern is 11 yr old boys are interested in this already, and parents aren't that concerned about it. Seeing things like this and exploring the sexual interests at that age concerns me because eventually they're going to want to exercise those interests in reality. As a father of 2 girls, defending their purity at that age is seriously concerning. Yes I understand that raising your kid to know the difference between right and wrong is THAT parent's individual responsibility. That being said, as parents, allowing your boys to be exposed to that material at such a young age will increase their curiosity and thus increase the chances of me being a grandfather in about 10 years. I don't want to be a grandpa before I'm 40, or 50, or hell, even 60.

    So please, when you think it's okay for your son to look at porn, or check out nudie mags, please consider the parents with young daughters, who seriously, explicatively freak out at the notion that boys at that age are looking at images of women. Obviously just a few people heading this request won't change the world, but just consider what you would do if you found out your 11 yr old daughter was exploring her sexual side with a boy, imagine how far, and how fast that boy would have to run and hide. Witness Protection Program comes to mind...
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    Re: So, I busted my 11 yr old looking at porn

    LOL, as the father of five girls, it was an exciting run, each one had great intentions, but evil can creep in. Sure provides for some great memories, the youngest is almost outta here, so the excitement continues.

    I do not envy anyone raising a young one in this day and age of modern communitcation and information.

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    I have a very beautiful 19 year old daughter and I have always worried about her and guys that she has dated. I make sure that she tells them that I am dying anyway and it really wouldn't bother me a whole lot to just take them out. She used to think I said that to be funny, but finally realized that I am serious. She is that special to me. She usually followed up their conversation asking them if they wanted to see my gun safe.
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    Re: So, I busted my 11 yr old looking at porn

    Quote Originally Posted by wj_brillo View Post
    I didn't bother reading the whole thread, but can imagine what was said lol, that being put forth, as a father of 2 girls, well soon to be two, just 1 for now, I'm a little freaked out about this. I guess I was raised in a sheltered life style, didn't see any of this until about 16. I guess my concern is 11 yr old boys are interested in this already, and parents aren't that concerned about it. Seeing things like this and exploring the sexual interests at that age concerns me because eventually they're going to want to exercise those interests in reality. As a father of 2 girls, defending their purity at that age is seriously concerning. Yes I understand that raising your kid to know the difference between right and wrong is THAT parent's individual responsibility. That being said, as parents, allowing your boys to be exposed to that material at such a young age will increase their curiosity and thus increase the chances of me being a grandfather in about 10 years. I don't want to be a grandpa before I'm 40, or 50, or hell, even 60.

    So please, when you think it's okay for your son to look at porn, or check out nudie mags, please consider the parents with young daughters, who seriously, explicatively freak out at the notion that boys at that age are looking at images of women. Obviously just a few people heading this request won't change the world, but just consider what you would do if you found out your 11 yr old daughter was exploring her sexual side with a boy, imagine how far, and how fast that boy would have to run and hide. Witness Protection Program comes to mind...
    this kinda made me chuckle because i raised two boys and i know for both of them the girls went after them with the sex thing. they were to busy with there quads and wheeling then in late middle and early high school is when the girls started going after them. so its not always the boys you have to watch,and yes i also have daughters one good one and one that loved chasing boys even at a young age. go sit at a mall for a few hours and watch how both sexes act without mom and dad around.
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