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    Re: So, I busted my 11 yr old looking at porn

    Quote Originally Posted by AZLugz View Post

    I once heard a lecturer state that "There are only 2 types of people that do not masturbate or have not.....Pairaplegics (SP) and liars..."


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    ROTFLMAO!!!


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    Nice text by the way....I'll pee in my pants with you any day Peezy!

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    Re: So, I busted my 11 yr old looking at porn

    Jeeeezz! Long thread.
    What happens on Elvis, Moms towels, etc...too funny.

    My 2 cents.
    I have two boys 10 and 12. They are not allowed unsupervised internet access for any reason. Period. I though all parents had the same rule.

    I remember my introduction to pron, it was a magazine in Grandpas truck. I was 7 maybe. I was like: That poor girl has a hatchet wound in her crotch!

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    Re: So, I busted my 11 yr old looking at porn

    Quote Originally Posted by RandyT View Post
    Jeeeezz! Long thread.
    That poor girl has a hatchet wound in her crotch!
    Wow...must have been one of them biker mags where the show the girls at the wrong time of the month huh?
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    Re: So, I busted my 11 yr old looking at porn

    There is a way you can look at the history of what sites have been visited. I use firefox as my browser so it is very easy to see where my computer has been. I am sure you have all heard of Kim Konando who talks about computers on 550 KFYI on Saturdays from noon till two. She thinks you should print out the following link and have both you and your child your child sign it. Also, put the computer out in the open so a parent can check on what is happening.

    http://www.komando.com/kids/commandments.aspx

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    Re: So, I busted my 11 yr old looking at porn

    I get my kids browser history confused with mine. Some of his sites are better.
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    Re: So, I busted my 11 yr old looking at porn

    just from my own experience, have his mom talk to him. when i was younger and looking at that useless stuff on the internet, my mom found out. when she talked to me i was thuroughly embarrassed and never looked at that stuff again. at my house at least...

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    my god i would really have gone from playing with it if they had the internet when i was that age

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    unsupervised internet access is asking for trouble more ways than one. your child may be subject to bullying, sex predators, unscrupeless people etc.

    if you don't know what they are doing you are asking for trouble. you don't have to limit their access but you definetely need to know what they are doing on the net from surfing, shopping, forums, my space etc


    wait until your kid learns how to clear the browser history. you won't know where they have been

    Put a key logger program to keep track of them. better to monitor in the background with a discussion later about what they are doing. if you don't you may have problems later. don't think that it can't happen to you because many think that and find out bad things later.

    here is the program i use. takes screen shots and keeps track of key strokes, websites etc. you can even block certain websites with parent controls, or specfic links.

    http://pcpandora.com/
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    Re: So, I busted my 11 yr old looking at porn

    Tere are several more ways to get it that just the history if you know how to work it

    I don't watch my kids the whole time but they know I pop in and check and they also know I check the computers regular. They are trusted but checked up on also
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    Re: So, I busted my 11 yr old looking at porn

    Wow, hot topic. Well, I got the expaination this morning and it will probably open up a new can of worms to some. It went like this.

    "Me and Deion were watching street fighting videos on You Tube and a lot of them had Sublime.com down in the corner. We went to it to find more street fighting videos but the site wasn't what we thought it would be."

    And no, I don't think pre teen boys watching street fighting, UFC, boxing, football, wrestling, playing violent in nature video games, seeing violence on TV, or listening to rock music is going to screw them up. The murderers, rapists, sex offenders, fettish freaks, hookers, spousal abusers, junkies and those that commit suicide have way more problems than entertainment media. Most likely a psycological disorder or a real crappy childhood that parents blame on media to conceal their own screw ups.

    I also let my son drive my Jeeps unassisted in controlled enviorments. I'm sure some think that is dangerous and irresponsible but I don't. Letting your kid learn to drive at 16 from some dude at driving school collecting a paycheck from his 2nd job is irresponsible. I grew up in the country and was usually the one that drove the tractor or truck when it came time to hay the fields(because I wan't big enough to buck hay yet). 2 ton flatbeds to 1/2 ton pickups. I drove my 1st five speed car on the road at 11 yrs. old. Knowing how to drive at an early age may or may not have any impact on the fact that I haven't had any speeding tickets or accidents that were my fault in 21 years of driving legally(off road doesn't count, I've had a few incidents 'wheeling).

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    Re: So, I busted my 11 yr old looking at porn

    Yep, gotta agree. My boys and I have been playing violant video games since they were little and my youngest sons favorite movie when he was 5 was predator. My boys turned out good. I started driving when I was 11 and my youngest has wheeled a samurai and the jeep since he was 12 or 13.
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    Re: So, I busted my 11 yr old looking at porn

    LOL! thats a great explanation! thats happened to me before.... i went to www.whitehouse.com.......... dont do it.....
    if you are looking for a link to the white house it www.whitehouse.gov
    some of these sites are sneaky.
    heck sublime.com.... i wouldve thought it was for the band sublime!


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    Nice text by the way....I'll pee in my pants with you any day Peezy!

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    Re: So, I busted my 11 yr old looking at porn

    OK, I don't have any boys, but I am very open with my 16 year old daughter. I have been since she was about 11 or 12 when she started asking questions about stuff she had heard at school. She knows I will never tell a lie to her about anything sexual in nature. I might not explain some of the terms(like the trail called DS), but will be candid and informative. Sometimes too much she says!

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    Re: So, I busted my 11 yr old looking at porn

    Are you blind with hairy palms now?
    [QUOTE=Bilt4Comfort;280558]Lol....boy did I ruin some of Mom's towels when I was a kid.
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    Quote Originally Posted by John_P View Post
    Funny this has been posted as my sister's daughter recently was busted being curious.

    Your son is 11...coming up on puberty very quickly (so is my niece). There is no coincidence here...both of these kids are coming up on some very major changes in their bodies that signal a new transition into sexual maturity. With these physical changes come psychological changes as well.

    My suggestion to my sister was this...Talk is cheap when the internet easily opens up a whole different world to them. I told her to have "the talk", which you have had, but I added a twist...

    I told her to have a three part talk...physical maturity, sexual reproduction, STD's. The kick is that with each talk you use the internet to show the other side of nudity and sex...the more "real" side...

    Has your son seen pictures of developing fetus?
    Has your son ever seen a woman give birth?
    Has your son ever seen pictures of genital herpes?
    An AIDS patient?

    This is not meant to scare, but rather to educate. I think it also takes the curiosity and really gets at the consequences of behavior they will contemplate in the next 5-6 years. Finally, I believe it says to her daughter or maybe your son, you can come to me and we can explore these questions together.

    Hope that helps.
    Me being a new parent, I have often contemplated the best way to do this and the most effective ( my son is 2 and my daughter is -12 days I like to think ahead and be prepared )And out of all the reading I have done this by far seems the most logical and effective way, thank you for the insight!!

    Another note Fear and Loathing rocks, it is one of the best movies of the times bet you would like Snatch, Lock Stock and Two Smoking Barrels or Full Metal Jacket and I know you would definitely hate A Clockwork Orange!
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